Sophia Daniel (1891-1981) & Romulus Hurley
Sophia married Romulus Whightman Hurley whom she always called “Mr. Hurley”. He was a farmer and school teacher in Saluda and Edgefield counties. Together they acquired over two hundred acres of farm and timber land in the two counties. Their houses were in Saluda County, where all of their children were born.
Sophia was a true Matriarch. She was a hard worker and demanded the same from all of her children. She tolerated no disobedience or “back talk”. Any violation was paid with a whipping on the nude buttock with the best hickory switch that could be found. Sometimes when she did not have time to get a switch, she would let go with a slap that would rival Joe Louis.
Although she worked in the field, helping with the main crops, chopping cotton, pulling fodder, tying grains, and many other chores, she always led the field. Even when picking cotton she rivaled the older boys and most of the time she would beat them. She was thrifty to the point of being downright stingy. She hated to see anything wasted or used in excess.
Even her “Mr. Hurley” who was a tyrant, would have to sneak to get extra sugar or butter. Even though she used ingredients very sparingly, she was an excellent cook. Her fried chicken and potato pies are still missed. She loved to sew. She made most of her children’s clothing. The winters were very cold so she had to make plenty of bed quilts for her large family.
Sophia always enjoyed visiting her children who had moved all over the country. She used to say that the “Lord scattered my children so that I could see all of these pretty places.” She especially enjoyed visiting Firpo who was a practicing veterinarian in Kansas. She loved the wide open spaces; the miles of wheat fields which she said “looked like oceans“. She always went with him on calls to treat the farm animals. It excited her to watch hundreds of cows being milked with machines. She was thrilled to see thousands of beef cattle in pastures and feed lots. She would even get out of bed in the middle of the night to go with him on emergency calls saying, “I have got to be with my baby.” She used to say “I sure thank the Lord for letting me see all this with my baby.”
Children: 10 children, eight lived to adulthood James, Romulus, Edward Bruce, Cyril, Ethel, Blanche, Quentin, and Firpo.
James Whaley Hurley (Bied)
Bied was a large, strong, muscular man. He loved to work. While his siblings played and socialized, he always found some work to do. He insisted on doing things his way, which often put him at odds with his father.
He left home at age 17 to pursue his own goal. He got a job working at a sawmill which was very hard work, especially for a boy his age. He worked in the rattlesnake-infested forests of GA. He often told of his encounters with very large rattlesnakes. He later moved to Washington D.C. and worked for the Gas and Light Co. and helped to install the first underground
system sewer in D.C and thus became a part of history. He was later employed by the Southern Rail Road at the Union Station; a job he held until he retired. Bied was never without a job.
Romulus Whightman Jr. (Booster)
Booster had a very unfortunate accident when he was a baby. Half of his face, hair, and ear were lost. His hand was burned off at the wrist. Despite having only one hand, he was a driver for a trucking company.
He married Carrie Black and moved to Washington, D.C. They had four children: Ruth, George Elbert, Eunice, and Carrie.
Edward Bruce (Bibaby) Hurley
Truly, the light of the family. He moved to Washington, D.C. to work with his brother James (Bied) at the Gas and Light Company. He was killed when the gun that he was cleaning accidentally discharged. He had one son Harold Chester who died at the age 14.
Cyril Hurley
After graduating from Benedict College, Cyril was drafted into the Army during World War II. He served in the Pacific theater, traveling as far as New Caledonia. After his discharge, he married Ophelia Marie Buggs. They lived in Garfield N.J. He was employed by the Hackensack Hospital until his retirement. They had 2 sons, both of whom live in Garfield, NJ. Bruce, and Cyril Jr. who did missionary work in California, Africa, and France. He is employed by the Department of Transportation in N.Y. His wife was from Africa. They have 8 boys including two sets of twins.
Ethel Elaine Hurley Massey
Elaine graduated from Benedict College and taught French and Algebra at Bennettsville High School, Bennettsville, S.C. She married Floyd Massey Jr, a Minister from Gastonia N.C. They moved to St Paul MN where he was the Pastor of Pilgrim Baptist for 20 years. They then moved to Los Angeles CA. where he retired as the pastor of Macedonia Baptist Church. They had 3 sons.
Blanche Hurley Milloy
(Memories as reported to and recorded by Marilyn Milloy)
Blanche lived a hard scrabble life in Johnston, SC, but you'd never know it from the way she relished telling stories about growing up on a farm. "When I was around 12 and the hens would hatch, Ma would give me a biddy, and I would bring it into the house and take care of it. when the chick got too big, it would go out back with the rest of the chickens. He'd forgotten all about me. And the next thing you know, he'd be in the pot."
The values that her parents taught -hard work, frugality, spiritual devotion, and love of family
would stay with her as she set out to raise a family of her own. "Remember the Golden Rule," she liked to say. "Do unto others as you'd have them do unto you."
After graduating from South Carolina State College in 1947, Blanche landed a job at Tuskegee
Institute as a secretary and was later promoted to assistant personnel director. One day, while
staring out of the office window, she spotted a young Courtland Milloy and declared, without having met him, "I'm going to marry that man."
Courtland was 24 and Blanche 22 when she took him home to meet her parents in Johnston. He wore a suit and tie and sported professional black horn-rimmed glasses. The adult, sophisticated look caught his future mother-in-law's eye, and Mama Sophia cautioned her daughter, "You know that man is 40," Blanche recalled her saying.
During the visit, Courtland was treated to Sunday dinner-Johnston style. "Somebody killed two
chickens, and Mama used the necks, head, feet, and gizzard to make the gravy, " Blanche said. "The only thing wasted on the chicken was the waste."
Upon Courtland's graduation, they were offered teaching jobs in Shreveport, Louisiana. Courtland moved there first. The couple married on the same day that Blanche arrived. "He wore blue suede shoes," Blanche remembered, "He was what we call 'hep' back then. "
Courtland taught graphic arts and journalism and Blanche was promoted to a supervisory position. In 1965, Blanche and Courtland started a printing and photography business while still teaching. After taking an early retirement from the school system, the two gave more time to the business that grew rapidly and included a wide diversity of customers, including some of the nation's largest corporations.
Despite the success, Blanche never forgot where she came from. "It's the simple everyday pleasures that make life worth living," Blanche said.
Blanche and Courtland had three children Courtland Jr, Docia, and Marilyn.
Alfair Hurley
Alfair died at the age of two from pneumonia.
Quintin Aubry Hurley
Quintin was very bright as he graduated from Benedict College at 18. He lived in Newark, NJ, and worked for Revlon. There was an accident and he was killed in his home in 2005. He was divorced with no children.
Firpo Leonard Hurley
Firpo was the youngest of the boys. Since his brothers were either away in school or living in
Washington, D.C., Firpo was left alone to work the farm with his father. He had to learn fast and get strong fast. Instead of going away to boarding school like his other brothers and sisters, he had to walk 14 miles round trip to school in Johnston.
Firpo served in World War II under "blood and guts" General George Patton in France and Germany.
After the war, Firpo attended the School of Veterinary Medicine at Tuskegee Institute, now Tuskegee University. While a student there a Congressman from South Carolina remarked that only white boys were veterinarians in South Carolina, so Firpo decided to go to Kansas instead. As he was preparing to start a practice in Harper, Kansas, a wheat farming town 50 miles west of Wichita, the Mayor came to him and told him not to stay in this town. He said that 25 years ago a colored man named "Nigger Bill" was run out of town and there had not been a colored person in this town since. There was also a town ordinance that prohibited colored people from living there. Despite it all Firpo stayed and built a successful practice.
Firpo became involved in many civic affairs. He joined the Chamber of Commerce and the Lions Club, which was featured in Jet Magazine. He also joined the Presbyterian Church and became both an Elder and Trustee. He was the guest speaker for many organizations, high schools, and colleges.
Not being allowed to vote in S.C., he was happy to vote for the first time in his life in Kansas.
Harper, Kansas was the home of John Brown, the white man who was hung in Harpers Ferry West Virginia for trying to free the Negroes. Firpo was asked to be Mayor of Harper but declined.
After 10 years in Kansas Firpo sold his practice and began working for the U.S.D.A. before opening the Hurley Dog and Cat Hospital in Detroit which is still in operation under new owners.
While in Detroit he cared for the pets of many celebrities, including Barry Gordy, Dianna Ross,
other Motown stars, governors, and senators. He had an opportunity to shake hands with President Lyndon Johnson. Firpo was also featured on several television and radio shows.
After 30 years, he sold his Hospital and moved to Oviedo, Florida. He stayed active by performing relief work for local Veterinarians and consulting with the Institutional Animal Laboratory Use Committee at The University of Central Florida. He also counseled young people who aspired to become a veterinarian.
Firpo and his wife Celeste Daugherty had one son Steven who retired as a Professor of Animal Science at North Carolina A&T University, Greensboro, NC.